Proactive Change: a divorced dad is still a dad

Warren Farrell: Father and Child Reunion

 

Excerpts from Chapter 6


Men's ABC Rights and Responsibilities: Abortion, Birth, Caring
In the old days, a woman's biology was a woman's destiny. Not good. In this chapter it will become clear why, today, a woman's biology is a man's destiny.

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Men's "A" Right & Responsibility: Abortion: or The Fallacy of "It's a Woman's Right to Choose Because It's a Woman's Body"

A woman's body is hers to control. When she chooses to share it with a man, she exercises that control. He makes a parallel choice. If together they produce a fetus, equality would dictate joint rights and joint responsibilities. Male-female fusion does not create women's rights. It creates a fusion of rights. It does not produce what German feminists call Reproduktionsautonomie, or reproduction autonomy, but reproductive interdependence.
The motto "It's a woman's right to choose because it's a woman's body at stake" implies that if a man's body is also at stake, he would share that right to choose.
Is a man's body at stake? Any time a man is asked to work to pay child support, he is using his body, his time, his life -- not for nine months, but for a minimum of 18 to 21 years. So the motto of the feminist with integrity is, "It's a woman's and man's right to choose because it is a woman's and man's body at stake."
A woman has no right to a unilateral choice that affects the rest of a man's life any more than a man would have the right to a unilateral choice that affects the rest of a woman's life. That's why rape is a crime.


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Reprinted with permission of Warren Farrell, Ph.D., from his Father and Child Reunion (NY: Tarcher/Penguin, 2001. Do not reproduce without proper authorization from the author or the publisher.

 

 

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