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I’d like to share a thought with you: Ideas not coupled with action never become bigger than the brain cells they occupied.

The image that comes to mind is that of a seed. It has the potential to become a tree, if only it is planted. It’s not the seed alone that makes the tree. It is the interaction of the seed with the nutrients in the soil, water and sunlight. You cannot have the tree without the seed. But you cannot have it without the soil, sunlight and water, either. And, of course, the time for all this to happen.

So, ideas are like seeds. Unless we do something with them, unless we get engaged in the reality of making them happen, they just remain seeds.


Being proactive is not a mysterious quality that we have, or don’t have. It is a way of dealing with things, that we can develop and strengthen.

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